The actual Friendly's in New Providence, NJ, where I actually worked. This photo was actually taken in 2012, but the outside of the joint has not changed a bit in 30 years. |
At night I scooped ice cream or drove around with my buddies tossing eggs at various targets, going to the movies, and haunting video game arcades. Overnight I drank beers (at the aforementioned Friendly's) or stayed up till dawn in my little apartment in my parents' basement (that's right, my PARENTS' BASEMENT), smoking cigarettes, drawing comics, reading great novels, and of course playing guitar. I wrote my first real song that summer -- "Someone's Been Sleeping in My Bed", which I may re-record just for kicks one of these days -- and I could not decide whether to be a rock star or a rock star cartoonist. (I'm still deciding.)
But the best, most vivid memories of that summer are the release of an album so original and so seminal that it still haunts me with its impact: R.E.M.'s full debut album, Murmur, the record that launched a thousand hipster bands.
I had never heard anything like it. It was drenched with 60s mystique and suffused with punk, and trying to figure out the lyrics was half the fun. I listened to this album night and day, including during closing at the aforementioned Friendly's, which drove my co-workers nuts. Never mind that they'd all be lining up to buy R.E.M. albums and tickets for the next quarter century or so; I was used to being an unlistened-to prophet in my own country.
I carried Murmur with me everywhere, courtesy of a junked-up portable dual cassette player, which also served as my cheapass recording studio, and Murmur became the main soundtrack to my other jarring cultural discovery of that summer, namely: comic books from publishers other than Marvel or DC.
My favorite non-X-Men comics that summer |
What else? Oh, yeah -- Pyramid Books released a whole pileful of Harlan Ellison books. I bought every single one.
A year later, I met Harlan at a comics convention in New York City and asked him to sign my copy of I Have No Mouth, and I Must Scream. He ordered me to say please. I complied.
Anything else? Well, I think I stocked up on a lotta Lou Reed, and for some reason I listened a lot to Fun Boy Three, the Specials spinoff band that really wasn't all that good, and I first read the complete Sherlock Holmes over the entire summer. But mostly, I listened to Murmur, and especially to this song, which I'll leave you with.
Anything else? Well, I think I stocked up on a lotta Lou Reed, and for some reason I listened a lot to Fun Boy Three, the Specials spinoff band that really wasn't all that good, and I first read the complete Sherlock Holmes over the entire summer. But mostly, I listened to Murmur, and especially to this song, which I'll leave you with.
Damn. It still haunts me.
John, this is your former Friendly's co-worker and Cub Scout nemesis Liz Fallon (Culp)! I found your blog post when I did a Google search today for Friendly's New Providence after my called to tell me that IT'S CLOSED!!! Whaaaaa! Those days working with you were so much fun...some of my favorite memories come out of that time. I still have a cartoon that you drew of Dave Ciullo and that female district manager we had (can't remember her name) getting "caught" in the stock room! And I never tired of REM...in fact you were one of my most important musical influences. Ah, good times!
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